[KS] Re: Re: gynecologists

[Hilary Finchum]

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As a researcher in Korea and a woman expecting her first child, I 
feel that I should comment.  First of all, I understand what Mr. 
Savenije is going through.  Being accustomed to the system in the 
States, there were many things that initially confused me upon 
officially entering the system as a mother-to-be. What scared me the 
most (and I do mean to say "scared") were the stories that my sisters-
in-laws and friends told me about their birth experiences.  There is 
very little education about the birth process for mothers, 
restraints, enemas, etc.  I won't go into all the details.  This is 
why I've decided to leave Korea a month earlier to give birth within 
the system that I feel the most comfortable.

However, Korea is different from the States and from other 
countries.  So, regardless of whether the system here is a Western-
style system started by a Canadian, we have to remember that it won't 
be the same because it is a different country.  In the States, women 
are given a lot of choice in the way they want to give birth, whether 
they will receive medication or not, etc.  The system is not perfect, 
as Ms. Kim pointed out, but it works for a lot of people.  Doctors 
are a little hyper about things in the States, but I think they 
should be (especially if they have patients like my older sister, who 
worried about everything in the book).  There are also lots of 
debates about natural vs. medicated childbirth, doula/midwife vs. 
doctor, etc.  At least I get a choice. I also echo Ms. Kim in stating 
that Holland seems like a really cool place to give birth.  Too bad 
I'm not from Holland.

The medical system here in Korea works for many Koreans.  Except, I 
must add, the current strikes which are preventing me from getting 
the adequate prenatal care that I feel I need--but that's another 
story.  I'm especially impressed with the beliefs associated with 
after-birth care--eating of seawood soup, staying indoors and as hot 
as possible, etc.  These are adhered to because these beliefs are 
what many people are most comfortable with here.

Two more things: Mr. Savenije, you can travel via plane up to the 8th 
month.  You must get a note from your doctor if you feel the need to 
fly after the 32nd week of pregnancy (although flying that late is 
not recommended by any medical professional, Korean or Western).  
And, best of luck in finding the best care with which you and your 
wife are comfortable.

Sincerely,
Hilary Vanessa Finchum

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